I know you get a ton of emails like this, so I guess I'll join the Que, but wanted to drop you a note and thank you for the time, effort and candor in writing your blog and sharing your thoughts and adventures. I've been reading for a couple of months now and really do enjoy it.
I am more like Big Chest -- bi mwm, 45, 6'5", 225lbs blond/blue, 9x7 top and have enjoyed a healthy sex life with guys on the side for a long time. I work for a NYC based global media company for past 20 plus years; been married 17 years with three kids.
So, I wanted to know more about "Mark". What makes him tick? What makes a married man who is very successful go out and find cock? So I sent him the following questions and these are his answers.
What goes on inside a successful married man with a great career that makes him seek out cock and male ass?
I can only speak for myself so for me, I am a person that craves intimacy on a variety of levels -- through friendships - both platonic and sexual, hook-up sex, love etc., It is a driving force that makes me successful in my relationships both personal and professional. I thrive on being a good father and living a married lifestyle with a woman, but also enjoy sex with a man. Society limits our roles and responsibilities and relationships so that they easily fit into boxes. My experiences in life have taught me just the opposite. Life and people are complicated with sometimes conflicting needs that change over time. It is how you manage those needs that can lead to a happy and fulfilling life -- and not running from them.
How does the sex differ with your wife and with a man?
Night and day. While some skills are transferable most others drive a totally different charge. For example, I was eating a guys ass before I fucked him the other week and he later remarked that it was the best rim job he ever had and that he could tell I was an expert at eating pussy. Making a woman cum by tongue flicking her clit is definitely different than rimming a guy, so it is as much being comfortable with both the pleasure you are seeking and the pleasure you give. If you are in tune with that, then it is all good and who you are fucking is less relevant than how the fucking makes you feel. But fucking a guys ass is a totally different feeling than fucking a woman. And to confirm the rumor, guys definitely give better head. Personally, I am also rougher on a man than a woman and enjoy more aggressive play with a man. Being deep inside a woman and burying your face in her warm tits -- wow, so great. So many differences -- all good!
Have you always questioned yourself? Are you bi or does it matter?
It really doesn't matter to me how I classify myself, people are more concerned about that than I am, particularly gay men --some seem overly obsessed with attempting to disprove bisexuality. I know what I like and want and what I don't and have been comfortable with that for a long time. But no, was not always sure and since I married very young and had children right away, chose providing for my family as a top priority above all else. It took me quite awhile to understand that different levels of intimacy CAN and DO exist and they need not be defined in polar extremes.
We have become very good friends.
And of course he has attached a few dick pics.
I need to get fucked by this BIG COCK!! It's fuckin' mouthwatering!!
16 comments:
Thanks for posting Mark's comments on being bisexual. I'm glad for him that he can derive pleasure and love from fucking both men and women.
I'm exclusively gay, and a total bottom. Somehow, I have always been intimidated by women, and, have never fucked one. When I have been fucked by a married man, I find they are more attentive to my pleasure than many gay top guys are who think it's all about them.
And yes, Mark does have an awesomely thick cock. Thanks for posting his pic.
thanks, BJ, and thanks to Mark for allowing you to share this. i love everything he says and how he's not hung up on the labels, or that some gay men are so insecure they have to disprove bisexuality.
as a gay guy that has fucked plenty of women in his younger days, there is a big difference, but i think i learned a lot from it.
thanks again for a great post!
Breeding Jock, I discovered your blog a couple months ago, and what I dig about it - besides the crazy hot sex and good writing and great pix - is that you are totally open and non-judgmental about other men's attractions and where they are in their lives. For the record, I'm gay and out and mostly a bottom, but I came out a little later in life. As fellow cock-, ass- and cum-lovers, it makes no sense to judge each other, whether we're out, closeted, bi, married, whatever - instead, we should support and encourage each other wherever we are on the road. You do that here and I appreciate that.
Oh, and Mark (like Big Chest) is insanely hot. He could fuck me senseless and dump a gallon of sperm into me anytime he wanted.
This is a perfect excuse for you to go to NYC and 'visit' (I'm assuming his comments about NYC based global media firm means he's in NYC).
While you're there perhaps you can invite Scott from Gayeststr8guy to your hotel room and corrupt him and also do some work with Max Sohl at TIM. Might as well get the most 'bang' for your buck, right?
Man, thanks for posting Mark's reply. I couldn't have said it better myself.
Like Mark, I am biMarried with kids. I enjoy sex with my wife as well as several men. It is very different, and he captures the essence of those differences exactly.
I also agree with him totally, I run into a ton of gay guys that are all about making me fit a label. I don't, and I never will fit those labels.
Thanks man, it's refreshing to see someone articulate exactly what I feel.
Wow, Mark's cock looks like one I'd love to take too, but that Bi Slut in big D makes me want to head to Dallas big time. Woof!
I hope Scott (gayest str8 guy) reads this post... both for the camaraderie and who know maybe it will inspire him to show us pictures of little scotty :-)
It sounds great but, I have to admit, the thing that bothers me is the nagging question: does his wife know? Do they have an open relationship? Don't you imagine that she has a right to know? I don't believe that she doesn't know on some level; this must have an emotional impact on her. She didn't choose this.
Listen to me, getting all judgmental, just like an insecure gay guy if you buy Mark's narrative. The thing is, I probably wouldn't give a shit except for the air of enlightenment/entitlement. Tell me about it when your wife and family and friends know about how open you are to the full range of sexual experience.
Tell Mr Marry Man. WOOF on his cock. I want to suck it dry. Very HOT Man here. I think it is the a semi bi state. I think most of us are bi to some degree. Love to see mroe of his pictures if he pleases to do so.
Ray
Some lefties just can't get over the fact that some people are simply ambidextrous.
Married men are frequently excellent tops.. especially when they are into breeding.
This was really insightful....and I'm like him when he said he's way more rougher with a guy than with a girl
I love reading your upfront disclosure of opinions.....and yes those lovely meats make me horny as well ;)
Thanks for sharing this guys views.
I find it inspiring!
Chris
damn, just stumbled onto your blog and what an introduction. How can I get in touch with mark!
I've got to agree with Mark about everything he says. I'm in much the same situation that he is. However(and this is a big however), I don't fool around with guys anymore (not that I didn't use to). I got the clap from one guy (which I passed-on to my wife unknowingly), and I got hepatitis B from another guy (and my wife had to go through a series of treatments to prevent her from contracting hepatitis). It's just not fair exposing her to this stuff--even if I didn't care myself. Watch out, Mark!
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